shooting the shit,,,,,,“In order to get feedback you will need to talk to people. A lot. You need to make sure that people want to talk to you and that you can gather the information you need.
Feedback Where the player is at Stories
Emotional Work when it’s not a crisis,,
Bystander effect
If lots of people are around people are less likely to intervene. You will intervene you just need to know
Small words catch people offguard
Game conflict bleeds into player conflict basics shoting the shit,Don’t tell them how they feel,,,,,,,https://trello.com/c/b4SSbAxk basics shoting the shit,State of person you are talking to,,,,,,,https://trello.com/c/yGIWcGpj basics shoting the shit,Conscripting a Confederate,,,,,,,https://trello.com/c/XCbgcHEa basics shoting the shit,Be excited,,,,,,,https://trello.com/c/AW8oiY0v basics shoting the shit,Courtesy,,,,,,,https://trello.com/c/nOROpGy3 basics shoting the shit,reccomend cool costume bits.,,,,,,,https://trello.com/c/c7rvB2wN
basics shoting the shit,Outside shit,,,,,,“You start to go on hearaay because you are concerned. Some people think that preventing outsiders from attending is going to create an outsider and makes the game less welcoming
Some people think it diminishes your authority
Do you need to catch people if I know
Do you tell people not to come play?
There are cultural expectations that are different depending on the environment you are in”,https://trello.com/c/K1bzEDz8 basics shoting the shit,Wants to be respected as a skilled player,,,,,,,https://trello.com/c/pZ0NtO0y basics shoting the shit,Congratulate good play,,,,,,,https://trello.com/c/cgXzgKoh basics shoting the shit,Making introductions,,,,,,,https://trello.com/c/kV8Q8ODN basics shoting the shit,Need to feel heard,,,,,,,https://trello.com/c/IbkugE1N basics shoting the shit,Learn their cues,,,,,,,https://trello.com/c/vODqkgYZ basics shoting the shit,It’s really great to have you here,,,,,,,https://trello.com/c/uMpcIOmq basics shoting the shit,Minor Crisis to look out for.,,,,,,,https://trello.com/c/2qMIqg3y basics shoting the shit,approachable,,,,,,“Sit or stand invitng let them talk even if you already heard it litening stance - palms on thighs - closed arms are bad never cut them off - Agreeable noises ask before taking notes but write it down later if no. Man that sucks do you want me to look into it? otherwise you get ““I told you that in confidence”” difference between feeling like a friend and a spy
so lte me get thsi straignt does tha tsound right repeat till good practince repeating back rminds them you are listing hear themselves differently “,https://trello.com/c/AsT296pA basics shoting the shit,Don’t outstay your welcome,,,,,,,https://trello.com/c/rUTf2bw9 basics shoting the shit,Leader,,,,,,,https://trello.com/c/mCqy65rP basics shoting the shit,Rough time at work,,,,,,,https://trello.com/c/PlTyLXVy basics shoting the shit,Had a bad day,,,,,,,https://trello.com/c/nGnRNssN basics shoting the shit,Know your personal mood,,,,,,,https://trello.com/c/sutwoSOM basics shoting the shit,Guarded,,,,,,,https://trello.com/c/2mbhKsWp basics shoting the shit,On edge,,,,,,,https://trello.com/c/iKmcOPdU basics shoting the shit,gauge their mood,,,,,,,https://trello.com/c/sqyOP3fl basics shoting the shit,Give ways to accommodate the feelings of players,,,,,,,https://trello.com/c/FychZJcn basics shoting the shit,If you don’t have a reporting system you don’t have a report.,,,,,,,https://trello.com/c/0yuVkHka basics shoting the shit,This is a community so it’s like a family. So you get family style arguments.,,,,,,,https://trello.com/c/emhxfkqV basics shoting the shit,Game running secrets,,,,,,“This other game has the character sheets in folddrs
Very common with traveling players”,https://trello.com/c/ZPULInC7 basics shoting the shit,If you have a wingman you need to brief them,,,,,,“What topics are taboo What are you hoping to get out of this How long should this conversation go for”,https://trello.com/c/7GP9Tz3c basics shoting the shit,Checking in,,,,,,“Talk to Matt Taylor about new world magiscola There needs to be a place to take a break with structure around it
What if they say that things are bad?
Seeing an emotion
In a place where that is ok.
maybe they have a complaint or bit of feedback. “,https://trello.com/c/6ImzQexd basics shoting the shit,Drama queen,,,,,,,https://trello.com/c/Nc5n6ks2 basics shoting the shit,first impressions matter,,,,,,Don’t make that first impression through conflict,https://trello.com/c/IcCn8HQv basics shoting the shit,Encourage them to take a step back and reflect,,,,,,,https://trello.com/c/pz16QrGy basics shoting the shit,Shit talking,,,,,,,https://trello.com/c/3LoxmLsO basics shoting the shit,posture,,,,,,,https://trello.com/c/LsljFOKp basics shoting the shit,Sometimes an interview gives you nothing,,,,,,,https://trello.com/c/IccGUDlS basics shoting the shit,Checked out.,,,,,,,https://trello.com/c/rUDbNHpz basics shoting the shit,People to talk to,,,,,,“Noah mason Person after first event Retired players are of low value. They are too common Professionals you need to have done your homework Current player”,https://trello.com/c/eHDXKqPZ basics shoting the shit,Be a friend first,,,,,,,https://trello.com/c/6f6VSaJQ basics shoting the shit,Disagreeing with someone who is philosiphise,,,,,,,https://trello.com/c/8gG1LWaN basics shoting the shit,Diffuse tension,,,,,,,https://trello.com/c/i9lfrA4s basics shoting the shit,Quiet player,,,,,,,https://trello.com/c/aTMtXEvw basics shoting the shit,Don’t fill the space in the conversation,,,,,,,https://trello.com/c/fh6W9G9I basics shoting the shit,Behind the scenes,,,,,,,https://trello.com/c/KUDZRLiY basics shoting the shit,Reassure,,,,,,,https://trello.com/c/FbKyVZtk basics shoting the shit,Are you adding your own special slin,,,,,,,https://trello.com/c/uUCJLnAv basics shoting the shit,Safe topics,,,,,,“The weather The drive Cool props”,https://trello.com/c/rvHJVonv basics shoting the shit,Listen for assumptions.,,,,,,The orcs will never win,https://trello.com/c/pXm3xkd7 basics shoting the shit,Confession,,,,,,,https://trello.com/c/2Q9bd6rT